The Scope of Professional Relationship Coaching
Relationship coach or casually known, too, as dating coach, is a results-oriented profession that helps functional people achieve their personal and relationship goals, such that its approaches are far different from replacement therapy methods that are provided by a licensed clinician. Because more and more people are seeking professional help in their relationship problems, in 1995, personal and life coaching evolved into a professions with training standards and certification requisites and methodologies.
It is an alarming to learn that even way back in 2015, there are results of studies indicating that 44% of US adults are single and 27% of adults live alone, while these statistical data may not be conclusive, but if this trend continues and no productive measures are not being done to properly and immediately addressed the situation, the single trend will continue until the percentage of singles will dominate the rest of the country. There is much that a relationship coach can offer with the singles, guiding them to rebuild their relationship with others and, at the same time, changing their mind-sets on being singles and not be affected by people stereotyping them.
It is interesting to note that there are many categories or types of singles with their specific descriptions: temporarily single, who is actively seeking a partner and in between relationships; recently divorced/widowed, who are recovering from the loss and not ready for a relationship; frustrated single, who wants a partner but unable to find one and is about to give up; passive single, who wants a relationship but not actively seeking a partner; single but not available, who has the self-perception of being single and desires a lasting relationship; busy/distracted single, who is absorbed being a single parent, career, school, etc. and doesn’t have time or desire for partner; and single by choice, who has no desire for a partner since being single is a conscious permanent lifestyle choice for many reasons. With such a large margin of category, such that each type of single has their own developmental goals, needs and challenges, a relationship coach will require special skills and strategies to effectively coach them, so they can succeed in experiencing a relationship.
Being professionally trained to work on each type, a relationship coach can introduce the following techniques: provide personal, one-on-one coaching or group seminars or weekend workshops; one-on-one coaching, includes mock dating, practice flirting; guides on the art of conversation, pick up lines, how to dress, appropriate forms of touch, the science of love; other specific approaches that may improve the dating prospects, such as online dating, email conversations or chat conversations, professional photo shoots, etc. The difference between matchmakers from a relationship or dating coach is that matchmakers arrange dates for their clients, while a relationship coach will coach their clients to find their own dates.
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